He Wore Flip Flops In The Pouring Rain. And That I Judged Him.

I had a lunch time with some guy I’d exchanged a couple of email messages and lots of a g-bbw chat rooms with.  We actually Skyped-which i will be composing a post on…I strongly recommend Skype or iChat with a romantic date just before spend time doing your tresses, specifically if you’re balancing lot’s of dates.  For reals.

Anyways, all ended up being good regarding the “No Catfish Here Front”. We appeared to be me personally, the guy appeared to be him, we laughed and decided we’re able to manage an actual date.

I became on time, he was later part of the (whyyyyyyyyy…stop getting LATER all of you)…and the guy texted myself, “simply walking upwards!”

It had been pouring rain, did We point out that? And freezing, about for Southern Ca standards. And he was actually putting on sandals. SHOES. The.Horror.
I detest to seem super judgemental (too late!) but as on the web daters, isn’t really that what we should do? JUDGE!  Assess initial e-mail, basic call, the fb judge, seeking what is wrong…instead of what’s correct? Or perhaps is that simply me…haha.

Today, I am not attending defeat across plant right here. I think a guy using flip flops in the pouring rain is actually obnoxious. I might imagine alike about a girl…but in which I reside, flip flops and shoes never ever get store for good and I also know I’ve been accountable for a grocery shop run in sandals during a storm.  A good many men i’m attracted to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip flops and denim jeans tend to be variety of their particular uniform.  Perform I wish he’d the existence of mind to put up genuine sneakers? Precisely why yes, yes i really do.  Did the guy need a pedicure?  Certainly, yes he did-all that outdoorsy-ness I really like really will not keep your own feet appearing too hot, it seems that.

But I digress.

We laughed lots and then he is actually devastatingly good looking.  He’s got flawless dining table ways and requested best questions.  Situations was heading well because after we consumed, the guy requested basically wished to check-out another spot to find some pumpkin cheesecake. I forgot about his sneakers and stopped judging…and simply had a great time.

Whether or not they are some body i do want to continue online dating features but becoming determined, however, if things continue well, perhaps we’ll simply have to get him a couple of Chuck Taylor’s for xmas and burn the sandals. With really love, needless to say. And an alibi. ????